In October I started a personal coaching programme with Jaap. I wasn’t doing well and after each session with Jaap I felt happier and more positive. I see opportunities again and I’m back to my old self. I became passionate again and all this after just six sessions. Super.
I felt a really stuck, but because of Jaap I got back the trust that everything is still possible and that everything in the future is still open. Jaap listens really well, really takes time and he also asks the right questions, that make you find out what you really want most. I am really happy with the coaching, it has changed my life a lot in a positive way.
This is a genuinely useful process and I highly recommend it. Jaap is not only an excellent listener, he also actively prompts constructive and positive thoughts and guides you to specific and practical outcomes.
How I'm doing today, is completely different from when I started with you. I have a clear vision now. I can see what I need for the future and I'm excited about it. You challenged me so much.
I was so scared of public speaking, but I did it! I dreaded touching base with friends after so many years, but I did it! Whenever I have strong, unpleasant thought, I can just look at them and let them pass.
Thanks Jaap, for everything!
I wasn't sure you could deliver on your promise, and I'm extremely surprised what a positive experience it was. I know now that I'm not abnormal and that reduces anxiety quite a bit. I was to focussed on negative thoughts and anger. It was so easy to talk to you and I was so glad we could have a laugh too.
My work is no longer a punishment, but I can enjoy the things that work out well, and the position that I have. I'm being listened to. It really is a change of perspective for me and I'm surprised how quickly that happened in the coaching sessions.
When there is space to articulate, you're surprised by what comes out and you can work with it. I have more clarity and I feel emotionally so much lighter. I know better how to deal with female managers and with procrastination. It was like I was in mud, but thanks to Jaap I have taken up interest in life again.
I enjoy my work again. By talking about things, you start to think about them and also the tips you gave, really helped. I have a better contact with my colleagues. Because I'm open to my work again, I enjoy it and it's still improving.
How I'm doing today is completely different from when I started with you. I have a clear vision now. I can see what I need for the future and I'm excited about it. You challenged me so much.
I moved in circles, now I have insights and possibilities. You really have to talk to someone: if it just stays in your head, nothing happens. I was lost, and because of the questions Jaap asked me, I've been put back on my path.
I was too crushed by my sadness to resolve it. Because of the coaching I realised I was acting in a way that wasn't smart. I did difficult things that I thought would impress people, but nobody saw them. Now I shine.